![]() Because nothing you describe on paper precludes you from meeting someone. I read your letter several times because I wanted to figure out your personality outside of your professed love for nerd shit and fantasy literature - what it’s like to meet you, hang out with you, and have a conversation where you might be going wrong when you find yourself actually interacting with women online or in real life. You find your weirdo and hole up like your life depends on it. That, to me, is how real relationships usually work, even in geographically challenged lands. All I know is they found each other because they were both at the same gamer convention and hit it off, and boy do they love the weird shit they do. I don’t even understand it I would have never pictured them together but for the fact that they are. ![]() My sister and her boyfriend are such total nerds that, in their house, they have an entire game room devoted to gaming with dueling consoles so they can play across from each other on headsets or something. I REALLY don’t want to become some horrible PUA bro or psychotic incel but what other choice is there? I just feel so defeated at this point and so angry. I’d basically give up any amount of money to have a woman I could be with not even just sexually but emotionally. This is the kind of shit a fucking 14-year-old should be worrying about but I’m about to turn 30 for fucks sake. No woman will want to be with me because it’ll be awkward and horrible. So at this point I’m still very inexperienced sexually (I ended up seeing a couple sex workers a year or two ago because I’d have shot myself if I became a 30-year-old virgin). I deleted all my dating apps and just don’t know what to do. What’s frustrating is that whenever I see a woman who does like those things she almost never answers my message or swipes right on me (these are the kinds of women the fucking dating dudebro assholes can never get to answer, either). When I’m not working I play video games or read fantasy. Also, not many people really like nerd shit out here-video games, in particular-but that’s really the only thing I like. Part of the issue is I live in a red state and I’m pretty far left politically. I don’t think I’m that horrible looking, I’m in shape, and like I said I have a good job, too. I have a low response rate on OK Cupid (which is where I have the most success) but even then the women I am interested in rarely reply and if they do they ghost me after the first date. I get maybe 3–4 matches on Coffee Meets Bagel PER YEAR. I get maybe 2 Tinder matches a month if I’m lucky (and I swipe right on everyone). The studying paid off because now I have a good job that I love and make above the national median but that all means nothing because I STILL can’t get a girlfriend even with professionally taken photos and hiring dating “experts” to run my profile (they could never get the kind of women I want to answer messages). Never had a girlfriend in college because I was too shy and also was studying a lot. ![]() I never had a girlfriend in middle or high school because I was ugly and a loser. ![]()
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
AuthorWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview. ArchivesCategories |